Sunday, November 27, 2011

Quotes from the Borderline

"What I want is to be needed. What I need is to be indispensable to somebody. Who I need is somebody that will eat up all my free time, my ego, my attention. Somebody addicted to me. A mutual addiction.

~Chuck Palahniuk

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5 comments:

  1. oh I'm sooo familiar with this,
    so sad,

    I'm curious, how many years of therapy it will take me to get rid of this toxic, destructive way of "loving"

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  2. I wish I knew, but I'm trying to find out. We shall see we shall see, and I'll keep posting until I get an answer.

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  3. I feel no one everrrr feels the same way as i do about them-intensely. Its a crazy ass obsession that I cant get rid of but I wish I can or wish someone would love me back as much and as deeply as i do. i cant handle this constant pain.

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    1. It gets better. The pain may not go away completely but it lessens in time. It will take longer though if you try to find happiness and what you need in another person. No human can be the perfect thing we want, especially when what we want often changes with our moods. Learn to be happy in you and you'll increase the odds of finding happiness in another.

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  4. Its hard though bc im constantly thinking shes flirting w someone else n i interrogate her all the time.I am absolutely terrified of her cheating on me or leaving me. I am addicted to her n it gets stronger everyday. then i complain that shes not affectionate enough. N its like my thoughts r always racing n thinking shes thinkin about someone else. Iobsess over these thoughts. itry so hard to stop and when i think i can i dont bc i dont wanna be that stupid person that is getting cheated on behind my back. i think the thoughts protect me in some way. im also alwayssss thinking she doesnt feel the same about me as i do her. I am so addicted. N this happens in every relationship w me.

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